The autistic survival pipeline, let's talk about it, because it's real...

Autistic Anxiety… Autistic Meltdowns… Autistic Shutdowns… Autistic Burnout … Autistic Skill Regression…

I’ve seen a lot of people talk about these autistic experiences, which are all extremely important and widely misunderstood…

And while these conversations are crucial for autism awareness, they are not typically discussed at the same time.

I personally believe these experiences are not just related… but all exist on the same pipeline…

And that if you understand how they relate... when they show up... and where they fit… you start understanding WHY they happen in the first place, and more importantly, how a person can get off the pipeline entirely.

So, I’m going to explain how I see the pipeline from the internal autistic experience.

I’ll start with this...it's a survival pipeline…

Or what I call, a survival continuum (which is vertical) and looks like this…

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Equilibrium (baseline… all needs met)

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Anxiety (the first stage on the continuum)

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Dysregulation

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Meltdown (fight response) / Shutdown (freeze response)

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Burnout (this is where skill regression shows up)

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Collapse

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Implosion (the final stage)

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Now, before a person enters the continuum, they are at equilibrium. Which is a baseline level where all needs are met.

When a person is here, they are completely regulated, mentally and emotionally.

But as soon as a need becomes unmet, the person enters the continuum.

This is where anxiety shows up. (Not usually visible.)

And a person travels down the continuum, the longer the need goes unmet.

Now, something important to understand is that the continuum itself is not autism specific.

What's autism specific is...

- What causes an autistic person to enter the continuum in the first place

- How quickly the autistic person moves down the continuum and WHY they move down the continuum

- And the fact that autistic people can’t typically move up the continuum without support (this is why autism is considered a disability both medically and legally)

Now that we've talked about what the continuum looks like at a high level, let's talk about what it feels like for an autistic person to go down it...

It starts with the autistic brain.

As soon as it interacts with a physical environment, there's a mismatch.

This happens because society has not created systems and structures to support autistic brain wiring differences.

This creates autism-specific needs.

Needs that autistic people have that nonautistic people don't because the environment is set up to support theirs.

As soon as an autistic need goes unmet...

Instant anxiety.

"Autistic anxiety"

The person is now on the survival continuum.

If the need remains unmet...

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Dysregulation.

If the need continues to remain unmet...

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Autistic meltdown / shutdown.

(This can be internal/not visible or external/visible.)

Meltdowns are the nervous system's desperate attempt at screaming for help.

It's the "fight" survival response.

Some autistic people have a "freeze" response instead and experience shutdowns instead of meltdowns... some vacillate between the two.

If the need continues to remain unmet...

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Anxiety spikes.

Dysregulation turns to distress.

If the need continues to remain unmet...

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Distress intensifies.

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Meltdowns increase in frequency and intensity.

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Exhaustion sets in. And then...

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"Autistic burnout"

Mental systems start shutting down.

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This is when skill regression occurs because mental systems are no longer functioning properly.

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Mental capacity continues to plummet.

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Physical health issues, which were there before, but manageable, start becoming unmanageable.

Sleep issues, stomach issues, heart issues... the list goes on.

As needs continue to remain unmet...

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Physical health issues increase and intensify, further magnifying mental health issues that are already quite severe at this point.

And if needs continue to remain unmet...

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“Autistic collapse”

This is a complete mental and physical system collapse.

Imagine a person desperately screaming for help, and eventually collapsing from exhaustion. It's like that.

This doesn't have to take years, months, or even weeks. If the triggers are urgent and severe enough, this can happen in a matter of hours.

At this point the autistic person is barely functioning, if at all.

With enough effort, SOME autistic people who reach this stage can still get their basic needs met. But this is JUST basic needs. Just enough to stay alive.

And if their needs continue to remain unmet...

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They eventually reach the final stage of the continuum.

"Autistic self-implosion"

The person is no longer surviving by any meaningful standard.

This stage can look like many things, but includes...

- No longer being able to get even basic needs met

- Physical systems becoming dangerously dysfunctional

- Medical conditions becoming critical

- Self harm

- Suicidal ideation, attempted suicide

- Other acts of desperation

Now I want to be clear about something because it's important...

This is NOT inevitable.

Not all autistic people will reach the last stage of this continuum.

This is ABSOLUTELY a preventable outcome.

But when autistic needs are chronically unmet... in many cases, for a lifetime, because external supports are not structurally in place... this becomes the reality for many autistic people.

And I personally believe this could explain the extremely high rates of suicide in autistic populations.

The solution is not simple, unfortunately. It's complex and multi-factorial.

But I believe putting autistic support systems in place is a necessary and critical step towards addressing this systemic issue.

Which can only happen if institutions are made aware of this... and are compelled to do something about it.

And if enough of us use our voices to flood the internet with this information... I'm pretty sure we can tip the scales in the right direction.